Grandpa’s Hands

By Melinda Clements

Grandpa's Hands







My Grandpa, some ninety plus years, sat feebly on the patio bench.

He didn’t move, just sat with his head down staring at his hands. When I sat down beside him he didn’t acknowledge my presence and the longer I sat, I wondered if he was OK.  Finally, not wanting to disturb him but wanting to check on him at the same time, I asked if he was OK.  

He raised his head, looked at me and smiled. “Yes, I’m fine. Thank you for asking,” he said in a clear strong voice.  

“I didn’t mean to disturb you, Grandpa, but you were just sitting staring at your hands and I wanted to make sure you were OK” I explained. 

“Have you ever looked at your hands,” he asked.  “I mean really looked at your hands?”  I slowly opened my hands and stared down at them. I turned them over, palms up and then down. No, I guess I had never really looked at my hands as I tried to figure out the point he was making.

Grandpa smiled and related this story:

“Stop and think for a moment about the hands you have, how they have served you well throughout your years. These hands, though wrinkled, shrivelled, and weak have been the tools I used all my life to reach out and grab and embrace life. 

They put food in my mouth and clothes on my back. As a child my mother taught me to fold them in prayer.  

They tied my shoes and pulled on my boots. 

They have been dirty, scraped and raw, swollen & bent.

They were uneasy & clumsy when I tried to hold my newborn son.

Decorated with my wedding band, they showed the world I was married and loved someone very special.
They trembled and shook when I buried my parents, my spouse and walked my daughter down the aisle.           

They have covered my face, combed my hair, & washed and cleansed the rest of my body.              

They have been sticky & wet, bent & broken, dried & raw.

And to this day, when not much of anything else of me works real well, these hands hold me up, lay me down… and again continue to fold in prayer.                 

These hands are the mark of where I’ve been and the ruggedness of my life. But more importantly it will be these hands that God will reach out and take when he leads me home.  

And with my hands He will lift me to His side and there I will use these hands to touch the face of Christ.”   


I will never look at my hands the same again. But I remember the day God reached out and took my grandpa’s hands and led him home.             

When my hands are hurt or sore I think of Grandpa…

I know he has been stroked and caressed and held by the hands of God.  I, too, want to touch the face of God and feel His hands upon my face.

Watch God’s answer to prayer work in your life. Let’s continue praying for one another.

Hands in Prayer

Passing this on to anyone you consider a friend will bless you both.

Passing this on to one not considered a friend is something Christ would have done.


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